Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Teaching our Sons to Love

Neglecting to actively teach our sons how to love leave them to cob it together themselves. Often the examples they grow up with does not help much to educate them either.

Men, boys, remember the girl you fell in love with. It is easy to forget why you were attracted to her to begin with because women change. They respond, react to the action of the people they are in relationship with. If you are kind and considerate consistently they will respond in kind. Women also go through a ton of biological changes when they become mothers. It may be best to have an attitude of celebrating the changes. At least you will not be bored and if you stick with it, she will keep the relationship interesting. Yes, most men hope that she will not change but the fact is that she will. The man in a woman's life have a great deal to do with how she changes.

You owe it to your children to model a relationship with your spouse that they can reproduce and be happy in. Loving their mother is the best thing a father can do for his children. Model respect so that they may become respectful adults. Model kindness, love and generosity so that they can become people of character. Nothing speak louder than your actions.

Dominating, controlling, manipulating a person, is NOT love.
Keeping all the money, keeping her in basic poverty, is NOT love. Refusing to do chores, expecting her to be your slave, is NOT love. Screaming at her, calling her derogatory names, mocking her, berating her, verbally assaulting her, is NOT love. Controlling her association with family and friends, is NOT love.

Well, maybe some thick skull need things spelled out. When you tell her what to wear, and how to wear it, it is abuse not love. When you portion her food out and control what and how much she eats, it is abuse not love. When you limit her time spend with family and friends or make it unpleasant and embarrassing, it is abuse not love. When you control how much money she has and how she spends it, it is abuse not love. When you yell and scream, curse and threaten, browbeating her into complying with you, it is abuse not love. The man is NOT the dictator in the home. The woman and children are NOT your property or slaves.

So how do you fulfill the role of leader in your home while avoiding these pitfalls? It begins with an attitude of the heart. A humble heart, aware of of your own fears and shortcomings, will be more able to lead in a kind and gentle way. Consider how our heavenly Father deals with us and emulate that. Be aware that your wife and your children are precious gifts to you. They belong to God. He only let you have them to brighten your life. Your actions and words matter a great deal. Find somewhere else to blow of steam not at your family. Be unselfish. If you are only concerned for yourself, everyone is a potential enemy, even the people you profess to love.

The Bible says: 
Husband love your wife just as Jesus loves the church and gave Himself for her. Eph 5 :25
When men are abusive to their wives, God does not listen to their prayers. 1 Peter 3:17
Those who lead among us should not "lord it over" those they lead.  1 Peter 5:3, Matthew 20:25
Fathers do not frustrate your children. Eph 6:4

Sunday, February 16, 2014

This is Heresy
Hebrews 13:9, Galatians 1:7, 2 Corinthians 11:3-4 

Here are a few recent teachings we have encountered in otherwise loving, sweet and popular assemblies. Some are dear friends we have known for many years and although I love the people truly, the teachings are un-Biblical and heretic.

1. The resurrection already happened. The second coming of Jesus Christ happened on the day of Pentecost. Heaven is not a place but a state of awareness, a different dimension.  
This is heresy! 
2 John, 1 Corinthians 15, Mark 14:25, Matthew 22:23-32, John 5:29, Romans 6:5, Philippians 3:11

2. Your spirit is sinless, seated with Christ in God and therefore you cannot sin. All that you do in the flesh does not matter because grace covers it. Your behavior, your actions matter little. Your spirit is the real you.
This is heresy!
James 4:4, Jude 1:4, 1 Peter 4:1, 3 John, John 14:21, 2 John 1:8,1 Corinthians 6:15,  2 Corinthians 13:7, Hebrews 4:12, Hebrews 2:2, James 2:14-26, Romans 6, 2 Peter, Revelations 22:12, Matthew 6:1-18, 1 Corinthians 3:8-14

3. If it is God, you will feel loved. We love people and want to meet their need, so we pursue God to get the power to do it. The purpose of the church is to serve people.
This is heresy!
Galatians 4:16, Mark 12:30, 1 John 4:1-2, 1 John 5:1-3, 2 Corinthians 5:14, John 14:2, Ephesians 3:19, Matthew 10:37

4. There are two salvation plans, one for the Jews and another for the rest of humanity. There are two brides. The Jews do not have to receive Jesus as savior, there is another way for them.
This is heresy!
John 14:6, John 8:12, Mark 15:2, Matthew 1:21, Ephesians 2, 1 Corinthians 12:13, Romans 11, Romans 9:3-8, John 10:9

5. If people oppose what I say, if they disagree with me, then they are evil or demonic. Because I am called and anointed by God I cannot make a mistake. God only anoints truth so I am truth and everyone who does not agree with me is evil. I am free to malign them and attack them because they are the enemy. 
This is heresy!
2 Thessalonians 3:15, Romans 13:8, James 2:1-13, Luke 6:35, John 16;13, Matthew 18, Matthew 5:43, Romans 12:20, Galatians 4:16

The Scripture references to refute these false doctrines are in no way comprehensive. It is just a starting point. There are also much more to each of these that intertwines with it and flows out of it. But as I understand it, these are the root of the teachings.

Sunday, February 02, 2014

We Are Changed

Matthew 17:2; And he was transfigured before them. And his face shone as the sun, and his garments became white as the light;

2 Corinthians 3:18 But we all, looking on the glory of the Lord, with unveiled face, are transformed according to the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Lord the Spirit.

His glory transforms us into the same image from one degree of glory to another... 

Forgiveness of sin does not really become an issue for a person who are a sinner. It is not an issue because it is normal for sinners to sin. It is the nature. A bird does not have to think to fly, it just flies.  Speaking to a sinner about their sin is a futile effort. It is taking the cat by the tail. 

But speaking to a sinner about the great love with which God loves them is another thing all together. God loves the world, everyone. Because of our misconception of what love truly is, we think that love is the same as license. God loves sinners enough that He sent His Son to pay the price for every sin. This allows the sinner who dare to receive this gift, entrance into a relationship with God. 


A sinner does not as much need forgiveness of sin as a transformation from being a child of satan and darkness into the Kingdom of Light and life. A pig may be washed 10 000 times but will return to the mud every time. If a person could somehow transform the pig into a lamb, it will no longer seek out the mud. Transformation of the nature of a sinner, be-ing born into the family of God changes the "who" of the person and therefor changes their incline, their bend, their nature. 

Now that the sinner became a Christian, a saint, now we need to speak of forgiveness of sin. I caught a snipped of an interview with a woman who worked in an abortion mill. She never had a problem with what they were doing. She became aware of the love of God, received Jesus as her personal Lord and Savior. The next day at work, she was left with the responsibility to dispose of the residue of a late term abortion. All of a sudden the depths of what just happened hit her and she wept over this baby. Before the light of the life of Jesus Christ entered her, there was no awareness of the true nature of her actions. A person sitting in darkness cannot discern the darkness. 

Once a person has been born again of incorruptible seed, sin becomes an issue. The weight of individual transgressions becomes a crushing reality. A Christian lives in a constant state of forgiveness since the conviction of the Holy Spirit never lets up. We are sensitive to the sinfulness of sin and can no longer be oblivious to it. 

One will not seek for an answer unless the problem is apparent. We seek God's forgiveness because we are convinced that sin is sinful. We avoid living in habitual sin so that our nature, the light in us, will not become dark. Once the Holy Spirit indwells an individual their relationship with sin changes. He, the Holy Spirit, convicts of sin, righteousness and judgement. 

John addresses his first letter to Christians. He says that if you are happy and comfortable in your sin, you are most likely not a Christian. He also said that Christians make a choice to love one another and obey God. Christians can choose to sin or not to sin. Sinners do not have a choice.

1 John 5:18 
We know that every one begotten of God does not sin, but he that has been begotten of God keeps himself, and the wicked one does not touch him.




Tuesday, January 28, 2014

One of our Times true Hero's, 

anointed man of God 

and Christian martyr. 



Martin Luther King, Jr., a Baptist minister, was a driving force in the push for racial equality in the 1950's and the 1960's. In 1963, King and his staff focused on Birmingham, Alabama. They marched and protested non-violently, raising the ire of local officials who sicced water cannon and police dogs on the marchers, whose ranks included teenagers and children. The bad publicity and break-down of business forced the white leaders of Birmingham to concede to some anti-segregation demands.

Thrust into the national spotlight in Birmingham, where he was arrested and jailed, King helped organize a massive march on Washington, DC, on August 28, 1963. His partners in the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom included other religious leaders, labor leaders, and black organizers. The assembled masses marched down the Washington Mall from the Washington Monument to the Lincoln Memorial, heard songs from Bob Dylan and Joan Baez, and heard speeches by actor Charlton Heston, NAACP president Roy Wilkins, and future U.S. Representative from Georgia John Lewis.

King's appearance was the last of the event; the closing speech was carried live on major television networks. On the steps of the Lincoln Memorial, King evoked the name of Lincoln in his "I Have a Dream" speech, which is credited with mobilizing supporters of desegregation and prompted the 1964 Civil Rights Act. The next year, King was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize.

The following is the exact text of the spoken speech, transcribed from recordings.

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languishing in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. So we have come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we have come to our nation's capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of theConstitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing apromissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory noteinsofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, acheck which has come back marked "insufficient funds." But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. So we have come to cash this check — a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice. We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quick sands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. 

Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children.
It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.

We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. They have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone.

As we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, "When will you be satisfied?" We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied, as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their selfhood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating "For Whites Only". We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive.

Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair.

I say to you today, my friends, so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal."

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification; one day right there in Alabama, little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.

This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.
This will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with a new meaning, "My country, 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim's pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring."

And if America is to be a great nation this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania!

Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado!

Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California!

But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia!

Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee!

Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, "Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!"



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